© 2020 Sterling James
When couples fall in love, they do a love dance together.
For a guy and a gal to fall in love with each other, they must have opposite 24- year cycles. This opposite love cycle of theirs moves around in circles where one is it a positive phase of this cycle, and one is in the negatives phase of this cycle. In this cycle, one is in the positive phase for 12 years, and one is in a negative phase for 12 years, then does a flip flop where one is in the negative phase for 12 years; the other is in the positive phase of this cycle for 12-year intervals. This would give this couple a perfect balance in nature. As their love cycle moves around in a circle, they will break out even twice where this is the perfect time for partners who reflect on the past 12 years or so and to plan for the next 12 years or so of their time together. By breaking out even, I mean neither partner is any more positive or negative than the other.
In poker, the best hand going into the last card usually wins.
In poker, you don’t want to be chasing someone with the best hand going into the last few cards, especially the last card. You want to have the best hand going into the last few cards while others chase you.
The love bug got me one year in the spring and fall.
I’m curious if that has happened with others.
Love mate.
If you have your love mate on the 1st try and things go well, chances are love will not knock on your door again. If you don’t find your love mate, then you will fall in love again and again till you do. If you find your love mate and life separates you, your love cycle may very well pick up where you left off if you’re looking for a new relationship.
Love cycles our great equalizer.
The love cycle is the greatest equalizer; it is even more important than looks when it comes to finding the right person in your life.
I give thanks to the girls in my life.
I really must thank all the girls who I shared some love time with; it was great while it lasted.
Did you ever wonder why most actors and actresses on TV and in movies only stay on top for a few years it all has to do with our ups and downs in our lives?
Happiness versus sadness.
If you had all the money you wanted and spent it all on all the things you wanted every hour of your waking moments for the length of your midrange cycle of 92 days, you will be happy only half the time. IT will go for all the good things that you repeat over and over again. Remember, the mid-range cycle is half positives and half negatives; that’s why I said you would only be happy half the time when doing something you enjoy for long periods. Let’s look at events we would consider to be bad like pain, hunger, or prison life; to mention a few, these are all bearable because half the time will be in a positive phase of our cycle. If this weren’t the case, we wouldn’t survive as we do. As proof of these findings, I remember how playing poker became like a job because I played so much of it rather than for a form of recreation. Anything done to access becomes a job than a fun thing.
Holding on to grudges is no good for you.
Thinking of bad happenings when in the positive phases of our cycle can turn the potential for good sour. If we are learning from bad experience, it makes sense to continue this endeavor, but if where dwelling on a bad experience that is making us angry, then it’s time to let it go and enjoy the positive in your lifetime.
That perfect day.
Planning for that perfect day like a wedding when it comes to luck requires a lot more planning the most of us are willing to do. A contingency plan in case luck goes against your plans is necessary. Without contingency plans, we’re at the mercy of our cycles. The more important an event is to you, the more it takes to plan for that event. If luck goes against your plan, don’t blame it on superstition but rather on your biological clocks. Remember, bad luck will pass, and good luck always returns.
Balancing Out The Ups and Downs of Life 